DON'T VISIT YOUR ELDERLY PARENTS?
IN CHINA YOU COULD GET SUED
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- Visit your parents. That's an order. So says China, whose
national legislature on Friday amended its law on the elderly to
require that adult children visit their aged parents “often” - or risk
being sued by them. The amendment does not specify how frequently such
visits should occur. State media say the new clause will allow elderly
parents who feel neglected by their children to take them to court. The
move comes as reports abound of elderly parents being abandoned or
ignored by their children.
A rapidly
developing China is facing increasing difficulty in caring for its aging
population. Three decades of market reforms have accelerated the
breakup of the traditional extended family in China, and there are few
affordable alternatives, such as retirement or care homes, for the
elderly or others unable to live on their own. State media reported that
a grandmother in her 90s in the prosperous eastern province of Jiangsu
had been forced by her son to live in a pig pen for two years.
News
outlets frequently carry stories about other parents being abused or
neglected, or of children seeking control of their elderly parents'
assets without their knowledge. The expansion of China's elderly
population is being fueled both by an increase in life expectancy - from
41 to 73 over five decades - and by family planning policies that limit
most families to a single child. Rapid aging poses serious threats to
the country's social and economic stability, as the burden of supporting
the growing number of elderly passes to a proportionately shrinking
working population and the social safety net remains weak. The rapid
pace of development in China has damaged the traditional extended family
in China.
An eighth
of the population of China is over the age of 60, and more than half of
them live alone. Their children often leave home to work in the major
industrial centres. The dislocation of families has been exacerbated by
China's one-child policy and a dramatic advance in life expectancy.
China has nearly 167 million people aged over 60, and one million above
80.
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China
has passed a law requiring adult children to visit their elderly
parents regularly or risk being sued. The law does not specify how
frequently such visits should occur, but warns that neglect could risk
court action. Reports suggest a growing number of elderly Chinese have
been abandoned or neglected by their offspring. Newspapers are full of
such stories, or of tales of children trying to seize their parents'
assets, or of old people dying unnoticed in their homes. Unfortunately,
in many places around the world, it has become a "nomal" behaviour that
children put their parents in storage places called 'retirement homes'
and take them Christmas candy or a gift for birthday once a year, while
the medical and pharmaceutical system keep all the savings of the
elderly.
WHAT DO THE VEDIC TEACHINGS TELL US?
A father creates the illusion that when his child grows up he will
cooperate, but that goes! When children reach the age of thirteen or
fourteen years, they say: “my father is old; this moron does not
understand anything.” The children spend their nights in clubs and the
father is concerned, then the child suddenly gets all high on marijuana,
all drugged and the father says, “son, what have you been doing?” And
he answered: “father, get out of here, leave me alone.” And when the
father says: “I am the authority here,” he says, “ well, so until then,
stay you well.” They leave the house and cruelly abandon their parents
... “And now even my children have gone, they are not grateful, the last
child told me why didn't you go to a nursing home and give the house to
them.” ... That's the story of all men in this world and for that
reason they need your compassion, they need you make them to be close to
Krishna, to give them mercy; this is something worthwhile, something
that can make you deserve the mercy Krishna.
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